Monday, August 6, 2018

MONDAY: QUICK POSTCARD FROM PHASE 5--ONE DAY YOUR GAY LIFE WILL FEEL LIKE A LOST DISTANT MEMORY

[MAKE SURE TO READ THIS LINK FIRST IF THIS IS YOUR FIRST TIME VISITING ENGLISH MANIF.]

Politics and work have kept me preoccupied a while and I have not been blogging as much with the guys on the "journey" in mind. So I thought I would take out some time to send you a note of encouragement.

I am in that fifth and last phase, the longest phase--the time frame when you are well out of homosexuality, well invested in your life with a woman, married, and busy. I know for a lot of you, depending on where you are in the journey, you may feel like the debate about homosexuality is all-consuming. It may seem like a lost pipe dream that you will ever get out of it.

I can't promise you how or when you can get out of homosexuality. But I can tell you that if you do, and you get married and stay busy with your wife, kids, and daily Bible reading, all of this fixation with homosexuality will one day fade and be a weird memory. Sometimes when I think on my gay past it feels like I am watching a movie about someone else in my mind. I can't believe that was ever me and I was ever so immersed and trapped in it.

I explain more in the video below. Keep up your spirit!